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Saturday, 19 September 2009

Rude and Ignorant People... Neighbors

I just had the worst weekend, due to my neighbors. You think all these years, that you have nice neighbors, but at the end you just find out that they are just rude and nasty and they've been talking shit about you behind your back all these times. That's the case with my neighbors. Thank god, next week is my last week here and we're moving to a better place. I've been hanging out with them for a couple of months, because they have two kids, a seven year old daughter and a five year old son and they like to play with my 21 month old daughter, so it's no big deal with me. I never had a problem with the mother or the father. Once school started, the grandparents came from New York, because the grandfather didn't have work and was on vacation. I didn't know them at all and they don't talk English, so we really don't say nothing to each other. The only person that I really talk to, was the mother and the kids. The father, didn't know English too well. From my understanding, the grandfather was nice. I already had a feeling with the dam grandmother already and for those of you who read my previous couple of post, I also talked about the mother, when she was saying things about me and my daughter, but I let it go, for the kid's sake. This time the grandmother and the mother, (mother and daughter) went too far. The grandmother was always staring at me with this nasty look with her ugly self and broke ass teeth and she never said anything, because she doesn't know English. One night, when we were eating dinner, her five year old grandson came to me and said, "Oh you can't come tomorrow ok". I asked the little boy if it was because they were going someplace, or something. He was like "Oh no, because my grandma hates you". I saw the mother's face and she tried to stop her son, but he still said it and the mother just laughed it off, like it was funny or something. After they all left, the mom spoke to me and told me what the grandmother had said about me. I got pissed. I even got more pissed, because the grandmother made the little boy said it, who was the innocent one. I told her, that her mother is a caword, because she couldn't say it herself and made her little grandson, who is only five say it. I also told her, that if I didn't know her or her husband, I would of already punched her mother in the face. She said it's nothing personal, but to me, it's real personal. You don't talk shit about me and my family and act like it's no big deal, because an old lady said it. Just because the grandmother is old and grew up in an old generation, doesn't give her the right to say things. Since she is old, she should of known better and the way that she's teaching her grand kids, is the wrong way and when the kids grow up, they'll have problems with society. Their also very racist, because the mother told me herself, that she hates blacks, because they are black. Her little daughter has a black friend at school and she doesn't like the little girl to play with her daughter much, just because she's black. That's wrong and sick. If my daughter had a black friend or a black little girl would want to play with her, then I would let them and I would be there to watch them. As long as their not doing anything wrong, then why stop them. It's not the little girl's fault that she's black. She didn't ask God, that she wanted to be black or any other color. She's always saying "Most Asians don't do this or don't do that, just like the blacks do". That is just a very racist statement and that is wrong. There are a lot of good blacks out there too, just as there are bad ones too. There are lots of bad and good Asians too. See, these people are Atheist and that's why they don't know any better. She even came to me one day and said, "Oh I heard your parents arguing" and ask what they were arguing about. I told her, that I didn't know, because I was at school at the time. I told my mother exactly what had happened and she said that they are just people who don't have nothing better to do, but to talk about others, because they can't look at themselves in the mirror and their just jealous. They live in a tiny little basement and six people are all cramped in there. It's against two regulations to be living like that and since their kids goes to school near by, they can't be living like that. The week before school started, she asked me to leave some cloths and a picture of her son in my house, so that if the school checks, she wouldn't get caught. At that time, it was no big deal to me. After she and her mother said what they said, I got so pissed off, so the next day I reported them annonimusly and a few hours latter, someone came to check, but I left on purpose. When I got back, she stopped me when I was going to my house and asked me why I wasn't answering her calls. I simply told her, that she didn't call me and she insisted that she did and a guy answered. I told her that she must of called my house number and that my brother picked up and that I really wasn't home. She thought, that I wasn't pissed at her and that it was just because of her mom and nothing to do with her. I told her, that since it's her mom, then it's about her too. She did say things too and if she felt that her mother is wrong, then she shouldn't of defended her mother at all. When you do something to piss me off, I let it go, but once you keep doing it again, then that's when I retaliate and do something that will piss you off even more. So yesterday I reported them to the school and she was so worried and it looks like they got away with it. My next step, is to wait about a month, when we're totally out of here and report them, saying that their restaurant is a health hazard and is full of rats and cockroaches and that when I ate from there, I got food poisoning for three days. I told my baby's father what they had said about our daughter and he knows me better then anyone, that if you piss me off, you'll regret it. She feels that I need to apologize to her. Hells no! None of this would of started, if her fucking rude and ignorant mother didn't say shit about me and my child and family. She said what she had to say and so did I. Since nothing happened with the school thing, you best believe me, I will do something else to get her restaurant close or investigated for sanitary issues. I have a lot of readers on here, who knows, that if you're nice to me, I can be the sweetest person ever, but if you piss me off, you're done with me and I'll make your life a living hell. Two of my best friends on here Dhess and Kristi and they know how sweet I can be.

Thursday, 10 September 2009

I can't believe, it's already September again. That means, back to school for kids and people who goes to college. The high school that I graduated from in 2004, just became so bad now. Now, the bored of education had no choice, but to make the students wear uniforms. It's ridicules. The students are wearing things that aren't permitted and they don't listen to the rules, so they had no choice. As the years go by, unfortunately the school is just getting worst and worst each year. If I still live in this town by the time my daughter goes to high school, I don't think I'll have her going to school there, because by then, it would be corrupted. In other news, I'm back in college, after two years. It's not so bad. I mean, I just took three classes and they don't seem that bad at all. One of my teachers, I already had twice in the past, so I know what she's all about. That's not such a big deal. The other two teachers, they seem to be fine. I just hope, that I do good this semester. I can't believe it, it's been two years already, since my last class. I have to get up so early, because I took early classes, so I can get home earlier. One of my class, is actually a 7:00am class and if I want to make it on time, I have to be in the bus by 6:00am. It's not that far, but the bus stops at every stop and there are a lot of passengers that gets on and off. I can't wait, until the first week of October, because my daughter's father will come to finally see her and I would finally get to see him again, after two years. This time, he's actually coming, because he already bought a plane ticket and it's non refundable. He can still back out, but if he does, he knows what the end result is and he doesn't want that. I'm sure all will go well. Last year during Halloween, it was still warm out and it's only the the second week of September and it's already cold out. I hope it's not too cold the first week of October. I'm also so excited, because by the end of the month, we'll be moving into our new home and me and my daughter, we'll have a bigger room with two huge closets. I'm just so excited.

Sunday, 30 August 2009

Guys... Guys... Giys...

Things have been going good lately. My baby's father already bought a ticket for him to come see her on October. He'll get here so early, so we'll have a lot of time together. I try not to fight with him anymore, but there are just times, that he pisses me off. When my ex found out that he was really coming, he got pissed and tried to say shit for my mom to get mad at my baby's father, so that my mom wouldn't let him come. That's not going to happen, because no matter what, the ticket is already bought and he's coming. Then he tried to tell me, that my baby's father doesn't really care about me and our baby. Yea, whatever. He also tried to say that once the baby's father gets here, we may end up having a baby again. I shut him off. I told him, that I wouldn't get pregnant again. He tries every possible way, to get me and my family to get mad at my baby's father, but that's not going to happen. Even if I'm mad at him, he's still my baby's father and there's nothing him or anyone can do to change that. My friend, is also going threw the similar situation. She's just been married for four months and she's already been separated for at least a month or so now. The guy went back to his ex, because he has a baby with her and she sued him for child support. She told me, the reason why her husband left, is because of her husband's sister. Apparently, the sister doesn't like her and I think that isn't the whole reason at all. If her husband really loved her, then he wouldn't leave her. The worst part, is that she's four months pregnant. It's much worst, because the baby isn't even here yet. At least, when I was pregnant, my baby's father was still here for me and we were together for another year. She even told me, that he told her that he wishes that she and the baby dies. It's his child too, so how can he say that. I don't get it. My baby's father is bad too, but at least he never said something like that. I told her, that if she really wants him back, she has to do whatever it takes, but she's just sitting on her ass doing nothing. I did whatever I had to do and things are turning out alright.

Saturday, 22 August 2009

These are new pictures of my baby Abbey....

Friday, 21 August 2009

My Baby's Father's Girlfriend....

I've been talking threw text with my baby's father's girlfriend. She's also trying to get him to fix himself with the situation that he's got with me, but he's so stubborn, that he doesn't want to listen. He doesn't even pick up any of my calls anymore, or return them, no matter how many times I call and how many messages I leave. I think, he just still doesn't believe the fact, that I really did file these child support payments and that he's really got to come to court on October 7th. He still thinks that I'm bluffing. I already filed and sooner or latter, he'll just get the summons in the mail and there's nothing that I, or anyone else can do. I mean, I've warned him so many times and even now, I'm trying to get him to fix himself, but nothing. The girlfriend knows, that he could be lieing to her too and she knows, that he's confused about himself and what he wants, but she's still willing to stay with him, because she says she loves him every much and that he's so nice to him and that he's got no one. I felt for the same thing and I said the same exact thing that she's saying right now and I told her, that in the end, she'll be the one hurt, just like me and just like the girl in the Philippines, but the love that she's got for him, is what's stopping her from seeing the truth and opening her eyes. There's nothing that anyone can do for him, because even she, can't get him to listen to him and there's nothing anyone can say to her, to get her to realize the mistake that she's doing with him. She said, that she's helping him pay for his car and other things that he needs. She even said, that she's willing to help with the child support too and even asked me, if I'll be happy when I get the money and if I'll leave him alone then. I told him, the money isn't for me, but for the baby and yea I'll leave him alone. She said, that she'll give him the money to pay. I will definatly tell the court and the judge that, she said that she's willing to pay for him. I'm definatly going to ask for wage garnishments. Then he'll have no choice, but to pay and she'll just keep being the fool and keep paying all his bills for him. One day, she'll call me and cry and tell me how much money she's lost, by paying his bills for him and that he was nothing but a lier and a looser. At that time, I'll have nothing to tell her, but sorry, I tried to warn you, but you didn't listen. I know how it'll end up and there's nothing that I will be able to do at that point. Love is blind and I learned from the hard way and she will too, but she's being an even more fool then me, because she's paying his bills every month. That's her lost.